I am thinking about what you said about us all being linked. I began to forgive my mother and family somewhat during the course of growing. When I arrived home my mother had sent me a birthday card..first one ever that I can remember and one of my sisters had phoned on the day. Of course i was still in sydney but I wonder did they sense a shift in my conciousness. A few days ago I wrote a chatty letter to my mother and was surprised that I actually felt 'unresentful' and quite warm. Hmmm? H.J. SA